Above all, good sex is fun. Hooking up is people tourism, in the words of someone with whom I have hooked up. And not every woman is into that, which helps me figure out our compatibility. The point is not to make you feel awful about being a man or responsible for shitty things other people do. Understanding her frame of reference for a potential evening with you is one way to help ensure you both have a good time. For a variety of reasons, including popular culture, patriarchy, and perhaps biology, men make the advances.
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Ok so there's this guy i've liked for a really long time I want to hook up with him but I don't really know him that well other than the things i found out from texting him. Also he would be the second guy i hook up with so im afraid i won't be as good at it as other girls he's been with.
And it makes logical sense. It allows for minimal time commitment, minimal emotional attachment meaning less chance of getting heartbroken , and lots of physical pleasure. The pervasive idea has been that only men are capable of dividing their emotions and their bodies. No girl wants a dainty man. We could act cold sometimes and emotional the rest of the time.